Sundays with Gage – thankful for his smile and sad for Sandy Hook families

004Gage is two and this past Wednesday was his last Mommy & Me class.  Mothers were encouraged to make themselves scarce as a transition for the kids when they started attending class all by themselves in January.  All this time I have been looking forward to the four hours week of ‘free time’ I’d be getting in January, but I admit the last class was bittersweet.  I want to be there and see the little guy grow and learn and experience new things.  I guess that’s called being a mother 🙂

So, jump forward a day to the horrific killings at Sandy Hook and it does sort of put a new perspective on life, especially life with Gage.  It will probably make dropping him off that first day even harder.  I am at a loss to even comprehend the devastation of those families and community.  I will hug my son, give him kisses and hugs and love him the best I can and I will do it every day.  Because today is the only time I know I’ve got for certain and I don’t want to waste it on anything less than being thankful.

And it’s pretty easy to be grateful for this smile.

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The Informationist by Taylor Stevens

The Informationist (Vanessa Michael Munroe Series #1)The Informationist, Finished 12-10-12, rating 4/5, 315 pages , pub. 2011

She nodded.  “You and every person who serves merits thanks and commendation, and you most certainly have it.”  She was silent for a moment.  “I can appreciate patriotism, but that’s about as far as it goes.  I’m not like most people,” she said,  “I have no devotion or affinity to any particular country-for that I assume I’d have to experience a sense of belonging.”  She looked at him and searched his eyes for an indication that he understood, then added, “Patriots defend their homeland, Miles.  Where is my home?”

Chapter 7

Vanessa Michael Munroe is a tough woman in a man’s world.  She makes her living finding information and selling it to businessmen who need it to make a deal.  She speaks over 20 languages which serves her well since she spends most of her time overseas, blending in with the natives wherever she goes, even passing as a man is if serves her well.  She grew up in Africa to missionary parents and spent many years working for Francisco, a gunrunner, and when her latest assignment takes her back to Cameroon she runs into her old mentor.

Munroe is an interesting character, but a hard woman to like.  She kills with little remorse and doesn’t seem to have any moral boundaries.  It isn’t that she’s heartless, because she’s not, she can break just like the rest of us.  She’s complicated, but not necessarily in a way that attracts a lot of compassion.   Let’s just say that I wouldn’t want to sit down and have coffee with her, but if I needed to get information and I had millions of dollars, she’d be the first person I’d call.

I thought the African setting was great.  I learned so much and still never felt like I was overwhelmed with too much information.  It was a perfect way for me to experience some of the wilder parts of Africa.  And as much as I liked the setting the mystery was solid and kept me guessing til the end.  I am really looking forward to continuing on with Munroe with the next book in the series.

Many of you remember that I was able to spend a little time with Taylor Stevens at the Bouchercon in October and I am so relieved that I liked the book as much as I liked the author 🙂  I won this book at Book Den last year.  Thanks, Jennifer!

Sundays with Gage – Plans are for healthy people

So, another Sunday and I’m still fighting a bug.  Lost my voice this week and it is slowly coming back online.   Do you know how hard it is to tell a 2-year-old NO a few dozen times a day with no voice?  Let’s just say I spent much of this week being ignored.  So, this meant that my plans for a book advent with 24 days of activities was curtailed this week.  We managed only two and the first one shouldn’t even count!

003We read The Child in the Manger, the first time Gage lasting only a few pages.  Each time we read it we made it a little further and I thought we were ready for the activity.  Telling the story as we put up our nativity.  Seriously, you’d think I don’t live with a two-year old.  I thought (or did I) that I could hand Gage a new toy and he was going to put it in the nativity without playing wildly with it first?  As you may have guessed already, meltdown ensued and nativity had to be removed from sight.  Lesson learned.  Next year get him his own play nativity set.

 

 

 

 

Next up we read Counting to Christmas which Gage didn’t care for much.  But one of the activities in the book is decorating cards and putting them in the mailbox.  Gage is not a crafter.  In his mommy and me class he is the first one up from the craft table if he sits down at all.  As an easy fix I thought he could help put stickers on a few envelopes and then we could walk down to the mailbox.  He actually helped with more later, but we only started with two.  His favorite part was playing with the stickers and playing with the mailbox.

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American Dervish by Ayad Akhtar

American DervishAmerican Dervish, Finished listening 12-4-12, rating 3/5, fiction, pub. 2012

The unabridged audio os 9.5 hours and read by the author.

Hayat Shah is a young American in love for the first time. His normal life of school, baseball, and video games had previously been distinguished only by his Pakistani heritage and by the frequent chill between his parents, who fight over things he is too young to understand. Then Mina arrives, and everything changes.

Mina is Hayat’s mother’s oldest friend from Pakistan. She is independent, beautiful and intelligent, and arrives on the Shah’s doorstep when her disastrous marriage in Pakistan disintegrates. Even Hayat’s skeptical father can’t deny the liveliness and happiness that accompanies Mina into their home. Her deep spirituality brings the family’s Muslim faith to life in a way that resonates with Hayat as nothing has before. Studying the Quran by Mina’s side and basking in the glow of her attention, he feels an entirely new purpose mingled with a growing infatuation for his teacher.

from Goodreads

The book does an excellent job at delving into the life of Pakistanis that had moved to the midwest, with their customs and faith.  At times it felt like an Islam primer and I’m saying that in a positive way.  I enjoyed learning about new aspects to the religion that I was unfamiliar with, it’s been a long time since my college religion class!  Hayat’s parents were very lax Muslims and when Hayat became entranced with the Koran he thought he had found a way to get them both to Heaven.  From the outset of the novel you know that Hayat loses his faith so there’s no surprise there, but how he loses it is sad.

Since I really enjoyed that aspect why am I only rating it a 3?  As a story I just didn’t connect.  I never really liked Hayat and since it was his story that was a problem.  The character I found most interesting was his father, a flawed man with a sound mind.  As a coming of age story I was somewhat bored through most of it, although that may have more to do with me than the book.  I thought the beginning and end of story served little purpose. At the beginning I thought there would be more about his current life and in the end I didn’t feel like he’d made big strides as a person.

I thought the author did a fine job with the narration.  I am always drawn to audio books read by the author and this totally felt like his story as he was reading it.

I won the audio book cd’s from Nise and would love to share the love.  If you are interested in having me send them to you, just be the first to leave a comment to tell me so.  You could listen to it on your holiday travels 🙂

Cleveland Christmas Memories by Gail Ghetia Bellamy

Cleveland Christmas Memories: Looking Back at Holidays PastFinished 12-4-12, rating 4/5, 120 pages, pub. 2012

To be born in the ’50’s and raised in the ’60’s in a middle-class family meant that nothing much happened.

It is difficult to describe the simplicity  of those years to the current generation.  It is the scarcity of material possessions, the absence of media and ubiquitous electronic communication devices that make my generation’s Christmas memories so unique.

My memories, I am sure, are almost exactly like those of all the children of my era-those of us fortunate enough to have parents who took the time to carry out all the relatively new traditions of an American Christmas.

(from the entry by Diane Vogel Ferri in Christmas, Cleveland-Style)

Native Clevelander, Gail Ghetia Bellamy, collected hundreds of stories from those who lived in Cleveland from the 1940’s on and put them together in this great book.  It’s a glossy oversized paperback that feels like a scrapbook of Cleveland in the 1950’s and 60’s.  Along with the hundreds of stories from the people who lived and worked here there are over 200 photos that add to the eye-catching layouts.  If you know of a Clevelander from that era or even a little later this is an easy gift choice.  It will sit out and be looked at all year round.

As a somewhat new Clevelander, we moved here in 2000, I thought it was a fun look back at the days when downtown was THE place to be at Christmas, with its huge department stores and window displays.  Our new casino is housed in the old Higbee department store so it was fun to see the pictures of a different time.  My favorite section was the one about food.  It really highlighted the diverse Cleveland population.  (Something I think Les Robert’s mystery series does very well too :))

A great addition to any Cleveland library (home or public), a perfect gift for anyone who grew up here or who has an interest in Cleveland history.

I want to thank Jane from Gray & Company for sending me a copy.

Quizzes, Winners and Stuff

Here’s the deal, I’m just coming off my third sickness in three weeks and I’m tired.  I’ve had the flu since Friday and am feeling better today (a good thing since Jason had to go to work!), but I’m still plum tuckered out.  So, I’m wrapping up  the quizzes for the year.  I decided to do this yesterday, even before I scored the quiz and saw that we have a first time quiz winner.  Overtaking Nise at the last minute is…

Hannah! (Word Lily)

Congratulations 🙂  You have won a $30 Barnes & Noble gift card just in time for Christmas shopping.

and the randomly chosen winner (ie Jason) is (drumroll please)

Marie! (Boston Bibliophile)

She will be receiving a special gift from me just for participating.

And just so you don’t think I just made up numbers for that last quiz, take a look at my crib sheets

003So, look for new quizzes in January!  I will be giving away my copy of The Nutcracker when I review it this week for those that are entered through last week’s quiz.

Thanks to all who come by every Tuesday to play along.  It’s always one of my favorite (and most popular) posts of the week 🙂

Sundays with Gage – the countdown to Christmas

Gage is a little young to appreciate counting down the days til Christmas, but I’ve seen so many cute children’s books for advent posts that I thought I’d give it a shot. I chose 22 books and 2 dvds (mostly from the library) and wrapped them up, put a number on them and them put the numbers on a box I still had wrapped from last Christmas.  I’m hoping that this will help him with numbers too since he doesn’t seem to care about learning them!

Each day we’ll open the box and find the corresponding book.  I plan to have a corresponding activity for each of the books.  I found this easy one on Pinterest (bubbly bowl of snowballs).  He liked the sensory aspect of the book, but was less interested in the bubbles.  I am going to post all the books and activities, so watch out for toddler overload the next few weeks 🙂

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November 5 Word Movie Reviews – Please help me get to $100 for charity

Wow!  What a movie month I’ve had!  You may notice that every movie but one has a one word title.  Weird, right?

Now I am asking you to help me reach my goal.  I really want to gove the $100 to charity this month!  To do that I need you to add your five words to as many reviews as you can and take a look at past titles (maybe you’ve seen a movie since I originally posted) here.

Currently, you’ve contributed $93 to the charity of the top reviewer’s choice.  Right now, Beth is in the lead with 13, BermudaOnion and Kay with 11. Gofita with 10.   Teddyree has 9, Wrighty has 8 and there are others who have contributed here.

Every time you add 5 words of your own to one of my reviews then you donate $1 to charity. The charity is chosen by the person who has the most reviews once we reach 100. (Last charity herePLEASE leave a clear 5 word comment so I can give credit for it.

Flight, 21012 (Cast-Denzel Washington, Don Cheadle, Kelly Reilly, John Goodman, Bruce Greenwood)  Grade B+

Cocaine’s like aspirin.  Who knew?

Hope it’s not in-flight movie.  (Softdrink)

Watch for James Badge Dale.  (Tony)


Lincoln, 2012 (Cast-Daniel Day-Lewis, Sally Field, Tommy Lee Jones)    Grade B

Too long.  Day-Lewis superb.

Slow moving plot; restless audience. (Kathy)

Bad hearing – spoke too softly. (Lloyd)


Unknown, 2011 (Cast-Liam Neeson, Diane Kruger, Janurary Jones, Aidan Quinn    Grade B

Convenient amnesia can be beneficial.

A bit silly, lotsa action.  (Heather)

Liam Neeson is a problem.  (Tony)


Limitless, 2011 (Cast-Bradley Cooper, Robert DeNiro, Abby Cornish)  Grade B-

Smart never looked so hot!

Be wary of little pills. (Kay)

Revenge is sweet and hot!  (Heather)


Arbitrage, 2012 (Cast-Richard Gere, Susan Sarandon, Tim Roth) Grade B-

Rich beats fair most days.


Greenberg, 2010 (cast-Ben Stiller, Greta Gerwig, Jennifer Jason Leigh)   Grade C

Stiller fans only.  Not comedy.


Beyond Poster.jpgBeyond, 2012 (Cast-Jon Voigt, Teri Polo, Dermot, Mulroney)   Grade C-

Could’ve been good but wasn’t.


This Means War, 2012 (cast-Reese Witherspoon, Chris Spine, Tom Hardy, Chelsea Handler)  Grade  C-

Creepy Spies Sharing Love Partner.

 Cute idea but no spark. (Kathy)

Should have picked other guy. (Jenners)

Love Reese, didn’t like movie.  (Kay)

Pine and Hardy are excellent.  (Tony)

Don’t Say a Word by Barbara Freethy

Don't Say a WordFinished 11-21-12, rating 3.75/5, romantic suspense, pub. 2011

Julie DeMarco loved her big Italian-American family and they loved her, even though her blonde hair and blue eyes made her an obvious outsider.  Her mother married into the family and then had another daughter.  Julie never knew anything else.  Then one day at a photography exhibit she sees a photo of a little girl standing at the gate of a Russian orphanage.  She is scared when she feels a connection and wonders if the girl could be her.

Julie has had a rough year.  Her mother died, taking answers about her birth with her, her ‘father’ is drinking himself to death and her fiance is pushing for a wedding date.  Julie tells her fiance she’s not putting him off, but it’s not hard to see that she is and he is not supportive of her wild goose chase.  Neither is her sister, which I never did understand.  But Julie plunges ahead in her search with the help of sexy, bad boy photographer, Alex.

I found this book to be highly enjoyable and hard to put down.  There were a few twists I didn’t see coming and some danger that kept the suspense alive.  Oh, and the sex helped move the story along too.  While I found some of the storylines somewhat simplistic and the end just a bit too neat, I also found the book highly addictive.  A fast read that will keep you guessing.

I bought this for my Nook.

You don’t need to know anything about the Nutcracker, Nutcracker Quiz AND GIVEAWAY

Every have one of those 24 hour bugs that could either be food poisoning or the flu?  Me too!  That’s why this is getting up a little late.  I have a game that I like to play called Picture Picture (no idea if they still make it) and I thought we’d adapt it a little and use the beautiful illustrations from The Nutcracker.

Here’s the deal.  Look at each of the pictures and tell me 5 things you see in each one.  You’ll earn points if you are the only one to guess a particular thing.  10 points if you are the only one and 1 point less for every other person who guesses it.  So there are a potential 200 points on the line!  Get to looking 🙂

Oh, and I’m giving away this copy and by joining in the quiz you’ll be entered (if you don’t want to be just let me know).

You have until next Monday to submit your answers as a comment.  Comments will be hidden until I post the answers.  

The person with the most points this round will win a B&N gift card (total $ based on # of total participants, so please play) and a randomly selected participant will win a fun prize from me.

Answers to last week’s Road Trip Quiz here. Leaderboard here.

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