Bring on the Cable Cars!

Jason & I will be heading out to San Francisco for a mini vacation next week and we’ll be there six days.  Well, okay, Jason will be working a lot of the time, but I’ll be busy exploring.  We’ve both been there once.  I was there for a few days in  1994 mainly to visit friends and Jason was there for a few days of work a few years ago, but didn’t get to see much. 

So, I’m planning our trip and I’m wondering if any of you have a favorite place or activity that you think we should see.  Or maybe a bookstore I shouldn’t miss?  I’d love some recommendations!

War & Peace by Tolstoy

Molly and I are reading War & Peace.  It may take awhile, but we’ll be posting every Thursday until we’re done.  I’d love to be able to tweet the first part of Volume 1, but you are stuck with a somewhat more traditional post.

So, what’s War & Peace about anyway?  Napoleon is taking over the world and it will only be a matter of time before he invades Russia.  This is the story of five aristocratic Russian families during those turbulent years from 1805-1813. 

Who’s the main character?  This is about a multitude of people, but mainly about members from five families.  Here’s my scoop on the main players…Bulonskys– The Old Prince was a general in earlier wars and he has two children, Andrei and Maria.  Rostovs– Loving family with four adolescent children and never enough money.  Drubetskoys– Poor mother and her son.  Bezukhovs– A dying count,  many illegitimate children and a greedy extended family.  Kuragins– They seem sketchy, but it’s too early to tell.

What happens in Part 1?  There’s a party in Petersburg for the titled and wealthy where we meet several key players from the Bezukhovs and Kuragins.  Then we move on to Moscow to a party at the Rostovs and a death watch at the Bezukhovs.  And finally we end up in Bald Hills where the Bolkonskys live and the young Prince has brought his pregnant bride.

Is it confusing?  Yes, especially at first.  There are a lot of people with similar names. Who knew there were so many princes?  And there is quite a bit of French (of the 1215 pages, 2% is in French) that is translated at the bottom of the page and there are 53 references to the Notes in the back of the book just in part one.  So there’s lots of flipping.  But as the story gets moving and some of the people become more recognizable it becomes easier to read.  Just a small learning curve 🙂

Is it boring?  No!  I was never bored and I was interested in all of the characters and how they all fit together.  I was pleasantly surprised by how much I enjoyed it.

Prince Andrei Nikolayevich Bolkonsky…We meet the little Prince at the Petersburg party where he expresses his dislike of his wife and his friendship for Pierre.  Here’s his first physical description…”of medium height, a rather handsome young man with well-defined and dry features.”   And this is our first taste of his personality at that party “he not only knew everyone in the drawing room, but was also  so sick of them that it was very boring, the face of his pretty wife seemed to be the one he was most sick of.”  He is fed up with society (and his wife), finding it empty.  He takes a position in the military and on his way to war he takes his pregnant wife to his father and sister in Bald Hills.  He is very unhappy, but he is smart and insightful.  I like him.

A little about Natasha Rostov…We meet the precocious 13-year-old at the party held in honor of her name day, which she shares with her mother.  This is her first description…”dark-eyed, big-mouthed, not beautiful, but lively girl.” and this is a description her personality, “inconceivable boldness and adroitness…both smart and pert”  She is in love with Boris Drubetskoy.  She is charming and comes from a very close-knit and supportive family.  I can’t help but like her.

A very little about Princess Maria Bolkonsky… We first meet Marie when her brother brings his pregnant wife to the family estate where she lives with her overbearing father.  A few words that were used to describe her or her actions…timid, fearful, sickly, unattractive, sad, frightened.  I know she is scared of her father, her best friend is Julie Karagin, she loves her brother, and she is very religious.  I feel more sorry for her than anything, but I don’t know her very well yet.

I’m having a good time with Tolstoy so far.  Want to know what Molly thinks and meet the characters she’s hanging out with?  Click on over… She covering overweight Pierre (seriously, it’s mentioned just as often as he is!), jealous Sonya, handsome Prince Nikolai, and beautiful Helene.

The Cougar Club, by Susan McBride with Giveaway

The Cougar Club by Susan McBride: Book CoverFinished 2-14-10, rating 4/5, fiction, pub. 2010

Kat Maguire’s Facts of Life for Women over Forty: The older you get, the harder it is to find a single man your age who isn’t either: (a) married or gay; (b) divorced with insurmountable baggage; or (c) looking for a girl half his age.

preface to Chapter 7

Three best friends since high school are all in the same town again and in need of some tender loving care from each other and, quite possibly, the younger men surrounding  them.  Kit, Carla, and Elise are 45 year olds living in St. Louis.  Kit has just returned home after being fired from her Manhattan job in favor of younger employees.  When she goes back to her highrise to lick her wounds she finds her 20 something boyfriend engaging in a little online sex and she hightails it back to Missouri.  Cat, wears her cougar title like a badge of honor and as a beloved local newscaster she has many opportunities to take her pick of younger men.  She is currently in a relationship with the hot, young sportscaster at her station.  Elise, the most settled of the three is an empty nester who fears that her husband is cheating on her. 

This books is a fast and fun read.  The women are all successful and they make 45 look pretty glamorous.  They don’t need men, but they do enjoy them.  I don’t know how realistic the stories of these three women are, but it was fun to be a part of their lives for a few hours.

I loved the sharp writing and I was especially drawn to the idea that you can always go home. I loved Kat’s journey back home to her family and friends after 20+ years.  It’s a heartwarming thought.  Also, this should be where I confess that I’m a baby cougar.  My husband is 4 1/2 years younger than me.  He was 19 and I was 24 when we went on our first date and here we are, 14 years later, still in love 🙂  What about you?  Any cougars out there?

Susan McBride gave away a copy and now it’s my turn.  I have one more to share.

Leave a comment with your email address to be entered to win.  And tell me, how much older does the woman have to be than the man to be considered a cougar?  Open internationally and I’ll draw for a winner on March 6.  Good luck!

Other TLC Tour Stops – Cindy’s Love of Books, The Winey Mommy, The Book Zombie, This That & the Other

I received  the book from the publisher to review for this tour.

And the first Cougar Club winner is…

The Cougar Club By Susan McBrideJulie H.!!!!!!!!

Congratulations, Julie.  I will be forwarding your shipping info on to Susan McBride.

My review of The Cougar Club by Susan McBride will be up shortly.  Leave a comment on that post and be entered to win a copy.  That’s right.  I’m giving away 2!

Star Crossed Lovers Quiz

This is week two of the new amd improved weekly quiz where I’ve decided to have them count for something!  While you all get adjusted this first round will last through February and there will be 2 prizes!  Check out the details HERE. 

The biggest difference is that you don’t have to be first.  Everyone gets an equal shot. Your comments will show up tomorrow.

Last week we did lovers for Valentine’s Day, but that day is done and tragedy has struck!  This week I’m going to give you two actors who have portrayed famous lovers onscreen.  You tell me the loving, yet doomed couple (fictional names, not actors names, last names are not necessary, 5 points) and/or the movie title (5 points).  Each question you get right is worth 10 points.  List as many as you know and no cheating off other commenters   Good luck! 

Want to see the leaderboard from week one?  Answers from last week’s quiz? And please guess if you only know one or two.  You’ll still be eligible for a prize!

1. Rose & Jack – Titanic

2.Bonnie & Clyde – Bonnie & Clyde

3.Rhett & Scarlet – Gone With the Wind

4. Molly & Sam – Ghost

5.Oliver & Jenny – Love Story

6.Romeo & Juliet – Romeo & Juliet

7.Tristan & Isolde – Tristan & Isolde

8.Cleopatra & Mark Anthony – Cleopatra

9.Ada & Inman – Cold Mountain

10.Ilsa & Rick – Casablanca

Come back Friday to see the answers.

Monday Movie Meme – Old Man Winter

This week’s movie topic is all about Winter…

This week it’s all about snow, something most people in the country are now very familiar with.  Here are the first five that came to mind.

Doctor Zhivago  It’s not really a favorite of mine, but I loved the winter fashion. 

Alive  This has one of my biggest fears on display, a plane crash.  Oh, and possibly getting eaten by friends.

A Simple Plan  I read the book  first and loved it.  And the movie with Billy Bob Thronton, Bill Paxton and Bridget Fonda shows that the chilly landscape isn’t as desolate as a heart obsessed with money.

Misery I watched this one for the first time only a few years ago and loved it.  Annie was one crazy fan.

Frosty the Snowman A classic.  Just watched it again a few months ago.  Love me some Frosty.

Stop by The Bumbles  and check out other winter movies that are sure to match your white landscape.  Is there a favorite of yours that I’m missing?  Let me know, maybe it’s one I have to see.

Deadly Desire, by Brenda Joyce

Deadly Desire by Brenda Joyce: Book CoverFinished 2-9-10, rating 4/5, romance, pub. 2002

Book 4 of the Deadly series (Book 1) (Book 2) (Book 3)

I’ve now been rereading this series for a month and I am having so much fun.  This is the book where it does begin to feel a bit soap opera-ish, but in a good way.  The mystery that sets the book in motion is dropped halfway through and not mentioned again until the last page.  Another mystery did present itself, as did a surprising declaration of marriage, and a beating that was never resolved.  Actually,there was a lot that was not resolved in this book, which is why it is a bit like a soap opera with a big cast of characters and a lot going on.  

Francesca’s relationship with Rick reaches a tipping point when she receives a note from his wife and her friendship with Calder heats up.  Rick is the good guy out to reform the New York police department and his half-brother Calder is the cad only out for himself…and Francesca.

There is no way to read this one without having read the others and get any enjoyment.  I think it would be too confusing.  That being said, I love this series, so if you like romances I recommend finding book one.

This came from my personal library.

Fave Film #12 – Silence of the Lambs (1991)

1991

Cast- Jodie Foster, Anthony Hopkins, Ted Levine, Scott Glenn

It was the top 5 Oscars – Best Picture, Best Actress, Best Actor, Best Director, Best Adapted Screenplay

FBI trainee, Clarisse Starling is sent to interview Hannibal Lecter, the mass murderer, to see if he can help the FBI find the serial killer known as Buffalo Bill.  When the daughter of an important Senator goes missing and Buffalo Bill is the suspect, time is short and Clarisse must rely on Hannibal’s help.

Why I love it – I think the number one reason I love this film is Anthony Hopkin’s chilling portrayal of Hannibal ‘the Cannibal’ Lecter.  I could not tear my eyes away from his cold glare and his creepy voice.  He is what most people remember about this movie and he is onscreen for only 16 minutes.  How awesome do you have to be to win a Best Actor Oscar for only 16 minutes of face time?!  I love his  psychoanalysis of Clarisse and Buffalo Bill, even if I don’t exactly approve of his eating habits.

And a close second to why I love this movie is Jodie Foster’s tough, yet vulnerable Clarisse.  She’s a woman in a male dominated field and it only makes her work harder.  I love the scene in the car with her boss Crawford when she throws his apology for treating her differently in front of the men back in his face.  She does not make a scene, but she does make her point.

This is a crime thriller, horror, suspenseful drama that has is all, if you can stomach a little gore.  Okay, maybe more than a little.  I loved the series Monk and it took me two full seasons to stop picturing Captain Stottlemeyer as the crazy, skin obsessed Buffalo Bill.

I loved watching this again last night.  I had forgotten just how good it was.  I’m including one of my favorite lines from the movie.  When I order Chianti I still think of Hannibal 😉

War. What’s it good for?

So, do you remember in December when I asked you all to choose 50 of the books I’d read this year?  (post here) Well, here’s what happened…

“I’ve had the goal of reading War and Peace since I was 8 years old and saw the Charlie Brown New Year’s Eve special where Charlie Brown was assigned to read that over Christmas break and had to wheel the book around in a wagon.  But I’ve never gotten around to read it.  Maybe if you read it, I will be motivated to read it as well – a peer pressure kind of situation.” Angie

“War & Peace: This one’s on my “bucket list” of books to read before I die. It’s not about the story, it’s about accomplishing the reading task! I got a new hardback copy & Cliff’s notes for my birthday this year.” Laura

“War and Peace by Tolstoy. I have not read it in English, however, Tolstoy was a genius when it came to literature and this book will provide you with so many things to think about, this book goes beyond simply war, but happiness, life, and what is necessary.”  Jennifer

and Hannah added this endorsement, “I almost said you should read War and Peace, because it’s one of my favorite books, but I don’t think a person can read and enjoy the tome without really wanting to read it.” Hannah

As I tallied the votes this was the one book that troubled me the most.  Could I make it through such a big (1215 pages), difficult (I’ve never read Tolstoy), and boring (There.  I said it.  I think it could be boring. Please don’t judge me) classic?  And then I received the best email from Molly at The Bumbles suggesting that we read this one together.  I was relieved and excited and touched that I’d have such a great blogging friend to get me through 🙂  Molly is awesome and anyone not familiar with The Bumbles should click on over there, as soon as you’ve finished reading this.

So, here’s the plan.  Molly and I will post a War & Peace review every  Thursday as we make our way through the book.  We’ll each be focused on four different characters.  I’ve got Natasha, Prince Andrei, Vasily and Maria.  And Molly will be covering Pierre, Nikolai, Helene and Sonya.  And we’re going to try to make it fun.  Don’t ask me how because I’m still working on it, but you know Molly will make it fun.

Wanna read along with us?  We’ll be posting about Volume I Part I next Thursday so you have time!  Or you can just read our reviews and claim you really read it to all your friends.  Either way, I hope you’ll join us for the journey.

Do you want to read Molly’s take on this?  And know where the title of this post comes from?  Please visit The Bumbles and let her know you’ll be there for us both as we take on this classic.

The Sister, by Poppy Adams

Cover ImageFinished 2-08-10, rating 3.5/5, fiction, pub. 2008

“No pictures, no clothes, no photos.  I mean, you’ve wiped out every reference to our past.  Our family might not have happened.  There was no point in its existing for the last two hundred years if it’s got nothing to show for itself.”

It is an interesting view but not one I share.  Is it really necessary to record your life in order to make it worthwhile or commendable?  Is it worthless to die without reference?  Surely those testimonials last another generation or two at most, and even then they don’t offer much meaning.  We all know we’re a mere fleck in the tremendous universal cycle of energy, but no one can abide the thought of their life, lived so intensely and exhaustively, being lost when they die, as swiftly and as meaningless as an unspoken idea.

Chapter 3

Ginny is an odd duck and a questionable narrator.  Her vivacious sister Vivian is returning to their Dorset, England home after 50 years away and Ginny is nervous, not sure why her younger sister is coming back.  Vivian left the house when she was just 15 years old for London where she lived, worked and fell in love.  Ginny stayed home to study moths with her father, a famous lepidopterist.  When Vivian asks her sister to help her have a child, Ginny said yes, unable to ever tell her sister no.

Vivian’s return home brought into focus that there is more than one way of looking at a childhood spent in the same house, two ways of looking at your parents and their motivations and sometimes even your own.  This was a dark look into the thoughts of a woman who seemed to have some struggle with reality.  Ginny had become a recluse and I thought at first the years alone may be why she was so strange, but that was not the case.  She billed herself as the sensible sister, a genius when it came to moths and keeping the family together, but by the end that is up for debate.

I did not like Ginny and never did connect with her.  As Ginny doled out facts, there was always something moving the story forward, so I was always interested, but the pages and pages about moths throughout the book really did slow the story down.  The story is strange and an interesting psychological study and the end totally threw me.  Actually, I’m still trying to piece together a few things that were purposefully left out and I’m not sure I’ll ever really figure it out.  If you can live with that then give this book a try.

This is from my personal library and was chosen for me by Jennifer and Sandee.  Here’s what Jennifer had to say…”I listened to this on audio and thought it was marvelous – not as good as The Thirteenth Story, but very, very good.”