Colleen O’Rourke is in love with love… just not when it comes to herself. Most nights, she can be found behind the bar at the Manningsport, New York, tavern she owns with her twin brother, doling out romantic advice to the lovelorn, mixing martinis and staying more or less happily single. See, ten years ago, Lucas Campbell, her first love, broke her heart… an experience Colleen doesn’t want to have again, thanks. Since then, she’s been happy with a fling here and there, some elite-level flirting and playing matchmaker to her friends.
But a family emergency has brought Lucas back to town, handsome as ever and still the only man who’s ever been able to crack her defenses. Seems like maybe they’ve got some unfinished business waiting for them—but to find out, Colleen has to let her guard down, or risk losing a second chance with the only man she’s ever loved. from Goodreads
I love this series set in New York wine country. The small town is charming, the people are eccentric and the dialogue is snappy. As with the first two books I laughed out loud many times and was brought to tears at least once. Higgins is so talented. I can’t wait to read everything she’s written.
Colleen, who owns the town bar with her twin brother, was in the first two books, but I was never really interested in her story. Probably why it took me so long to start this one. Colleen, it turns out, is a beautiful but somewhat broken 31 year old and I felt for her. Lucas came to Manningsport broken by the deaths of his parents and he and Colleen found love. Of course, young love rarely runs smooth and the two part ways. I loved Colleen’s attempts to set up athletic Paulie with beautiful Bryce and her relationship with her half sister.
There were a few somewhat problematic parts for me on both sides, but in the end that’s what makes this one more real than some other romances. They both did some unappealing things and in the end that made me cheer for them to find solace in each other all the more.
One of the picture books in Gage’s Christmas advent tree was Martin’s Big Words:The Life of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. written by Doreen Rappaport and illustrated by Bryan Collier. It is a gorgeous book, this picture of the cover doesn’t do it justice. It’s oversized and has won many well-deserved awards.
Jason read the book to Gage (now 6-still can’t believe it) first and I remember Gage asking a lot of questions about him getting killed at the end. Not a lot of books prepare a child for this sort of ending.
The second time I sat down to read it with him a few days ago and before we even sat down he was telling me how King did good things. I told him yes, Martin Luther King changed the world (something we talk about often with different people) and even before I got the book opened he asked me, “How old was he when he knew?” “Knew what?” “That he wanted to change the world.” My heart melted. It is never too early to talk to kids about grand ideas or big dreams! We find out in the book that the seeds were planted when he was Gage’s age.
A beautiful book and starting place for young kids to learn about a civil rights icon. It led to great questions and a real interest to learn more. For both of us.
The Dead Key. Finished 1-12-17, rating 4/5, pub. 2015
Unabridged audio read by Emily Sutton-Smith. 13 hours 47 minutes.
It’s 1998, and for years the old First Bank of Cleveland has sat abandoned, perfectly preserved, its secrets only speculated on by the outside world.
Twenty years before, amid strange staff disappearances and allegations of fraud, panicked investors sold Cleveland’s largest bank in the middle of the night, locking out customers and employees, and thwarting a looming federal investigation. In the confusion that followed, the keys to the vault’s safe-deposit boxes were lost.
In the years since, Cleveland’s wealthy businessmen kept the truth buried in the abandoned high-rise. The ransacked offices and forgotten safe-deposit boxes remain locked in time, until young engineer Iris Latch stumbles upon them during a renovation survey. What begins as a welcome break from her cubicle becomes an obsession as Iris unravels the bank’s sordid past. With each haunting revelation, Iris follows the looming shadow of the past deeper into the vault—and soon realizes that the key to the mystery comes at an astonishing price.
In 2015 I had the opportunity to hear Pulley speak (wrote about it here) and the talk made me excited to read the book (the 2014 Amazon Breakthrough Award winner). So much of what she writes about came from her experience as an engineer and being able to see the safe deposit boxes left as they were described in an old bank she was surveying. I think seeing her presentation definitely made the book better. If you’re interested this is a talk ( link )she gave at a local library.
The mystery follows the popular two storylines taking place in different time periods approach and works well enough, but I almost wish there’d been less of the 1998 story because the storyline and main character weren’t nearly as interesting as 1978. I loved young Beatrice getting caught up in scandal and intrigue at the bank during a time that women had less options than they do today. I was rooting for her to make her way out of the mess without getting caught but we never really knew until the last chapter with Iris in 1998.
Beatrice had all of the dignity that Iris lacked. Iris drank too much, smoked too much, was late for work too much and maybe let her curiosity get the better of her too much. I didn’t have problem with her but it was Beatrice’s story that kept me reading.
I liked it and am glad that I was able to hear her speak first because it put the story in context. I also loved that it took place in Cleveland (and that means I can count it for my Read Harder Challenge).
Jason and I are watching a documentary a day for our January 30 day challenge. We are on schedule with the watching but two reviews behind. I blame it on the snow day Gage had yesterday. Over the weekend we watched one that I thought my romance reading friends might like.
Love Between the Covers, 2016, is on Netflix.
For three years, we follow the lives of five published romance authors and one unpublished newbie as they build their businesses, find and lose loved ones, cope with a tsunami of change in publishing, and earn a living doing what they love—while empowering others to do the same.
They had a few of my favorites – Jennifer Crusie, Kristan Higgins, Eloisa James, Nora Roberts and many others. Have any of you watched it? What did you think?
Here Be Dragons: A Parent’s Guide to Rediscovering Purpose, Adventure, and the Unfathomable Joy of the Journey by Annmarie Kelly-Harbaugh and Ken Harbaugh
Here Be Dragons. Finished 1-9-17, 4.5/5 stars, parenting, 204 pages, pub. 2016
Before our three kids, we had been decent people. Interesting even. One of us had taught Shakespeare to gang members while the other flew reconnaissance missions off North Korea. But our own children had proven our biggest challenge. We were passionate and service-driven folks, except we were not demonstrating this to our kids. We spent so much time trying to be good parents that we forgot to be good people.
Something had to change.
Two parents challenge one another to find balance between work and family life. Their stories are both uproarious and poignant as they raise children and strive to leave their mark on the wider world. Filled with tender moments and plenty of laughs, Here Be Dragons recounts the adventures of a family trying to stay afloat, and offers a life raft to the rest of us in choppy waters. from Goodreads
When Annmarie emailed me about reviewing the book she had written with her husband it was plum luck that I read it. I confess that I am a book blogger who very rarely opens up requests from people I don’t know. For some reason I clicked it open and saw that that it was being published on my birthday and that Annmarie and her family live in the Cleveland area so I asked her to send me a copy. What fun it was to read about Annmarie and Ken’s journey to parenthood and beyond. I don’t usually use an author’s first name unless I know her but after reading the book I feel like I do and you will too.
Annmarie and Ken met in college and were friends who eventually saw a future together. Both independent and driven they each sought to make a difference in the world, sometimes that meant they were in the same place on a map, but often it didn’t. They married and had kids. Usually this is where the story would become all about raising baby and how life stopped, but that isn’t what happened. Amidst the trials of being a first-time stay-at-home mommy (been there and Annmarie made me laugh with her spot on observations) Annmarie and Ken still strived for more adventure, more purpose.
Their search for adventure and purpose has led them to live from coast to coast and in Ken’s case continent to continent, again, sometimes together and sometimes not. More babies came but that didn’t stop them from moving when they felt called to do so. They spent several years in the village next door (the one I’m always trying to convince Jason we need to move to) before heading to California with three kids and a packed car.
These are two parents trying to teach their kids what it means to be fully engaged by living a fully engaged life themselves. Their giving spirits come through loud and clear. They show the ebb and flow of a marriage with kids and they do it with warmth and humor.
The book is told in alternating voices. They are both skilled writers so the book is beautifully written. If you google them you can find links to some of their writing (Annmarie has quite a few pieces I loved on Huffington Post). They also have a blog.
Ken spends a chapter or so writing about his time with Team Rubicon. They put veterans to work in disaster areas and it looks like a great program that would do good things with a donation.
I really liked this one and think any parent will too. They have given me inspiration to do more (and move to Chagrin Falls ;)).
Who knew that when I published my first post here that I would still be around nine years later talking about books, movies, trips? Not me that’s for sure. I think that years 2-4 were the most successful ones. I was active in the book blogging community and I had time to visit my blogger friends EVERY DAY. Times have changed and bloggers have come and gone, but there are many of you who have been here since the first few years and I appreciate your friendship so much. Thanks for sticking around and being a part of my on-line, and often real, life.
I plan on another great blogging year with the admission that the weekly quizzes are gone for the forseeable future. I think it’s fun, but it takes up too much time. I’m not sure how I’ll replace them but I’ve got some ideas 🙂
Here are my favorite pics from each year of blogging. Tell me if you have a favorite. I may use it on my front page this month.
It’s been awhile since I posted about the albums from this book (Over a year. Yikes!). I’ve only managed 25 more, but after I post this will put some more on hold at the library.
Two summers ago I started using this book as a guide to explore music with my son. Gage has been a part to some of the journey, but not all. I try to play at least parts from every album for him, except the explicit ones, and some he likes and some he covers his ears. He is probably more discerning than I am. This post is more for me than you because I know that these lists can get boring, but feel free to comment if I’ve listened to a favorite of yours (whether I liked them or not :)). Happy listening.
I’ve decided to list them in the order I liked them best. If you click on my favorite song on each album it will take you to the video.
Elephant by White Stripes, 2003. Favorite song – In the Cold, Cold Night
The Slider by T.Rex, 1972. Favorite song – Metal Guru
Electric Warrior by T.Rex, 1971 Favorite song- Banga Gong
Halcyon Digest by Deerhunter, 2010. Favorite song – Earthquake
The Wall by Pink Floyd, 1979. Favorite song – Another Brick on the Wall, part 2
Private Dancer by Tina Turner, 1984. Favorite song- What’s Love Got To Do With It
Johnny Cash At Folsom Prison by Johnny Cash, 1968. Favorite song – Folsom Prison Blues
Pyromania by Def Leppard, 1983. Favorite song- Foolin’
Hysteria by Def Leopard, 1987. Favorite song – Love Bites
Born To Run by Bruce Springsteen, 1975. Favorite song – Born to Run
461 Ocean Boulevard by Eric Clapton, 1974. Favorite song – I Shot the Sheriff
John Barleycorn Must Die by Traffic, 1970. Favorite song – John Barleycorn Must Die
Nebraska by Bruce Sprinsteen, 1982. Favorite song – Atlantic City
At Budokan by Cheap Trick, 1979. Favorite song – Come On, Come On
Kind of Blue by Miles Davis, 1959. Favorite song – So What
If I Could Only Remember My Name by David Crosby, 1971. Favorite Song- Cowboy Movie
The Low End Theory by A Tribe Called Quest, 1991. Favorite song – Excursion
LA Woman by The Doors, 1971. Favorite song – Love Her Madly
Are You Experienced by The Jimi Hendrix Experience, 1967. Favorite Song – May This Be Love
My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy by Kanye West, 2010. No favorite.
Homework by Daft Punk, 1997. No favorite.
Bitches Brew by Miles Davis, 1970. No favorite
List of the albums we listened to from the book(The Visitors by ABBA, Back to Black and Highway to Hell by AC/DC, 21 by Adele, Pump and Toys in the Attic by Aerosmith, School’s Out by Alice Cooper, Dirt by Alice in Chains, Among the Living by Antrax, Tidal by Fiona Apple, Funeral by Arcade Fire, Whatever People Say I Am, That’s What I’m Not by Arctic Monkeys, The B-52’s by the B-52’s, The Atomic Mr. Basie by Count Basie, Abbey Road, The Beatles (white album), A Hard Day’s Night, Revolver, Rubber Soul, Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band, With the Beatles by The Beatles, The Band and Music From Big Pink by The Band, Pet Sounds by the Beach Boys, Licensed to Ill and Paul’s Boutique by the Beastie Boys, Parallel Lives by Blondie, Boston by Boston, Station to Station by David Bowie, Safe As Milk and Trout Mask Replica by Captain Beefheart and his Magic Band, Sweetheart of the Rodeo by The Byrds, Johnny Cash At Folsom Prison by Johnny Cash, Abattoir Bllues/The Lyre of Orpheus, The Boatman’s Call and Murder Ballads by Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, At Budokan by Cheap Trick, Chicago by Chicago Transit Authority, 461 Ocean Boulevard by Eric Clapton, The Songs of Leonard Cohen and Songs of Love and Hate by Leonard Cohen, A Rush of Blood To the Head and Parachutes by Coldplay, A Love Supreme by John Coltrane, Be by Common, If I Could Only Remember My Name by David Crosby, Crosby Stills & Nash by Crosby Stills & Nash, Homework by Daft Punk, Bitches Brew and Kind of Blue by Miles Davis, Halcyon Digest by Deerhunter, Hysteria and Pyromania by Def Leppard, Are We Not Men?We Are Devo! by Devo, Brothers in Arms by Dire Straits, The Doors , LA Woman, and Morrison Hotel by The Doors, Gris-Gris by Dr. John, The Night Tripper, Blonde on Blonde, Blood on the Tracks, Bringing It All Back Home, Freewheelin’ Bob Dylan, Highway 61 Revisted, by Bob Dylan, Eagles and Hotel California by The Eagles, Seldom Seen Kid by Elbow, The Marshal Mathers LP andThe Slim Shady LP by Eminem, Sweet Dreams by Eurythmics, The Soft Bulletin and Yoshimi Battles the Pink Robots by The Flaming Lips, Rumours and Tusks by Fleetwood Mac, Foo Fighters by Foo Fighters, Frampton Comes Alive by Peter Frampton, Franz Ferdinand by Franz Ferdinand, The Score by Fugees, Maggot Brain by Funkadelic, So and Melt by Peter Gabriel, Appetite for Destruction by Guns N’ Roses, Are You Experienced by The Jimi Hendrix Experience, In Our Heads by Hot Chip, Dare by The Human League, Make Yourself by Incubus, In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida by Iron Butterfly, Rhythm Nation by Janet Jackson, Bad, Off the Wall and Thriller by Michael Jackson, The Blueprint by Jay-Z, Surrealistic Pillow by Jefferson Airplane, Darklandsand Psychocandy by The Jesus and Mary Chain, Aqualung by Jethro Tull, Goodbye Yellow Brick Road by Elton John, Now I Got Worry by The Jon Spencer Blues Explosion, Come Away With Me by Norah Jones, Pearl by Janis Joplin, British Steel by Judas Priest, Cross by Justice, Tapestry by Carole King, Destroyer by KISS, Tragic Songs of Life by the Louvin Brothers, Illmatic by Nas, In Utero, MTV Unplugged in New York, and Nevermind by Nirvana, Ready to Die by The Notorious B.I.G., Straight Outta Compton by NWA, The Wall and Wish You Were Here by Pink Floyd, Regatta de Blanc and Synchronicity by The Police, Elvis Presley by Elvis Presley, 2112 by Rush, Never Mind the Bollocks Here’s the Sex Pistols by Sex Pistols, Bridge Over Troubled Water and Parsley, Sage, Rosemary and Thyme by Simon & Garfunkel, Francis Albert Sinatra & Antonio Carlos Jobim and In the Wee Small Hours by Frank Sinatra, Me Against the World by Tupac Shakur, Born in the USA and Born To Run, Nebraska, The Rising by Bruce Springsteen, System of a Down by System of a Down, Electric Warrior and The Slider by T.Rex, John Barleycorn Must Die and Traffic by Traffic, The Low End Theory by A Tribe Called Quest, Private Dancer by Tina Turner, Dear Science by TV on the Radio, All That You Can’t Leave Behind, Joshua Tree, and War by U2, Velvet Underground & Nico by Velvet Underground, My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy by Kanye West, Elephant by White Stripes, Red Headed Stranger andStardust by Willie Nelson, Back to Black by Amy Winehouse, XX by The XX, It’s a Blitz! by Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Close To the Edge, Fragile and The Yes Album by Yes, After the Gold Rush, Harvest, and Tonight’s the Night by Neil Young, Rust Never Sleeps by Neil Young and Crazy Horse, Hot Rats by Frank Zappa) 140/1001
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Each year Sheila at Book Journey hosts First Book and First Word. I’ve done the First Book for a few years and here’s this year’s selection…
Here be Dragons:A Parent’s Guide to Redicovering Purpose, Adventure, and the Unfathomable Joy of the Journey by Annmarie Kelly Harbaugh and Ken Harbaugh. Annmarie contacted me in October to read the new book she had written with her husband. I saw that she was local and decided to take it. I started it in November, but since I was writing a book (NaNoWriMo) I was wasn’t devoting much time to reading. I decided to table it until the new year and here we are. I will be picking it up on page 53, after she’s had her first baby and decides she needs to go back to work. The book is good and the Harbaugh’s sound like the couple everyone wants to be friends with (hey, we’re local so who knows? ;)).
One Word is something Sheila does every year and I’ve always been intrigued by those who could decide on just one word. In the last week or so a word came to me and I’m going with it. Those who know me or follow me on Facebook or Twitter know that the election in November saddened me for so many reasons. I think we are in for a tough, long four years, BUT in a way it also opened the door for me to become passionate again. I plan on using Facebook and Twitter to highlight my word every day this year.
I want to live an INSPIRED life. I want to be inspired by God, my country, my community, my family and friends, and myself. I want to weed out the noise and negativity and look around that the good that is happening all around me. When I see an injustice or a problem I don’t just want to complain about it. I want to find the people who are doing something about it and become one of them. I want to look outside at the beautiful earth we live on and be inspired to be a steward. I want to be inspired by those who know God. I want to find those changing the world and support them. At first it seems that inspired can be a passive word, but if you are truly INSPIRED you will be changed and have the power to inspire those around you.
What’s your first book of the year? And did you choose a word this year? Why not be inspired along with me?
I watched 41 movies. That’s way down from 54 last year, probably due to our new 30 Day challenges.
I wrote 2 Book vs. Movie posts (The Blind Side, Still Alice), reviewed 1 of my 100 favorite movies (#29 Serendipity), tried to get a few movie features going but failed due to lack of time and effort, and continued my 5 word movie reviews asking for your participation. Please consider adding your thoughts to these reviews since they count towards money for charity, maybe even yours!
January was the month I saw the most movies with 7.
2016 was my most watched movie year with 13.
Sadly, Hope Floats (1998) was the oldest movie I watched. I love old movies so I expect this to change next year.
Favorite animated movie – Mr. Peabody and Sherman, 2014
Cutest Couple – Sandra Bullock and Harry Connick Jr. in Hope Floats.
I always list my most watched actress and this year it was a 5 way tie with 2 movies a piece-Rachel McAdams (Spotlight, Doctor Strange), Sandra Bullock (Minions, Hope Floats), Scarlett Johanssen (Chef, Captain America Civil War), Tilda Swinton (Trainwreck, Doctor Strange), Lake Bell (No Strings Attached, The Secret Life of Pets)
My most watched actor was a 3 way tie with 3 movies a piece – Tom Hardy (Mad Max Fury Road, Child 44, Revenant), Jeremey Renner (Captain America Civil War, The Arrival, Hansel & Gretel Witch Hunters), Kevin Hart (Get Hard, Secret Life of Pets, Central Intelligence)
Every year I list my 5 favorite movies of the year, but this year I’m adding a category with just one movie in it. I can’t call it a favorite because it devastated me, but it was the best movie I saw this year.
Best movie I saw this year
Manchester by the Sea, 2016. See it.
My 5 faves of the year
1.Spotlight, 2015. Worthy Oscar winner.
2.The Big Short, 2015. It’ll make you mad all over again.
3.Chef, 2014. Foodies unite!
4.The Nice Guys, 2016. It surprises me as much as it surprises you to find this here, but I loved these two and the 70’s vibe.
5.Captain Fantastic, 2016. Viggo rarely makes a movie that I don’t love.
So tell me, what was your favorite movie this year?
Okay, this is the last one for 2016 and I’m hoping you can help me move that number up. If you haven’t seen these movies but want to scroll the past year and add your 5 words we could get to $100 by tomorrow. Scroll here.
Another month and another chance to contribute money to charity. Add your 5 words (or less!) to mine in a comment and earn $1 for charity. Once we get to $100 the person with the most reviews will choose the charity. Click here to see the past winners, the charities they chose and the other reviews you can add to. Anyone is welcome to join in at any time.
We’re at $37.
I hope that you will take a few minutes to participate when you can each month. It’s fun for me and for everyone else who reads it. I’m not looking for a critical review, just a few words about how you felt about the movie. This is ongoing so you can leave your 5 words anytime.
Manchester By the Sea, 2016 (Casey Affleck, Michelle Williams, Kyle Chandler, Lucas Hedges, Gretchen Mol) Grade A
Devastatingly raw Oscar worthy drama.
No Strings Attached, 2011 (Natalie Portman, Ashton Kutcher, Kevin Kline, Cary Elwes, Lake Bell, Mindy Kaling) Grade B
Cute leads pull it off.
Waffle Street, 2015 (Danny Glover, James Lefferty) Grade B
Wall Street turns Waffle Maker.
Hansel & Gretel Witch Hunter, 2013 (Jeremy Renner, Gemma Arterton, Famke Janssen) Grade C-
Had potential, but missed mark.
No soul to horror/fantasy mashup. (Heather)